Depending on the above meaning of seeing a blue J, there are a few things you can do to listen to their messages and take action.
If you think that the feeling of seeing your Blue J may be related to the feeling of being judged by you or others, Van has asked you to release your own internal critic-and ignore the judgment of others. “If your mind doesn’t speak to you with patience, reassurance and love, it’s at the very top of the list of things that Neil Jay wants you to do,” she says.
And as far as being judged by others, “if the critics are a minority and you really like what you are doing,” he says, there is no need to give any weight to their verdict. "There will always be at least some critics wherever we go. The universe has designed you in such a way that you and the world don't have to be the person you want to be to make others happy," Van explains, adding, "You If you recognize that this is happening to you right now, Neil J will most likely tell you here that no matter how scary it is, it's time to start being real. "
And finally, Blue Jess encourages us to be confident and strong. If you don’t feel like you’re being recognized that way, Van suggests spending some time studying the people in your life who have the respect you desire for yourself.
“Consider accepting some of their behaviors that resonate with you, but don’t try to force yourself to be someone you don’t want to be instinctual - which doesn’t work in the end,” he adds.